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* It's good to suffer loss, for it draws me to the Cross where God's loss is more than what anyone ever lost. * We cannot hear what the stories of the Bible are saying until we hear them as stories about ourselves. * Let go of control. * Trust God. Thank God. Think about God. Talk to God. Talk about God.

Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Delight


"Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart" (Ps 37:4). "You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand" (Ps 16:11). "They feast on the abundance of your house; you give them drink from your river of delights" (Ps 36:8). "Rejoice always" (1 Th 5:16). "The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace..." (Gal 5:22). " I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete" (Jn 15:11).


Theme: No one enjoys life without delight and happiness. The good news is that the God who loves us desires to fill our hearts and lives with delight and happiness. Thus, utmost ultimate delight and happiness is found in our triune God. The delightful things in this world only points to the ultimate Delight.

 

"You have made us for yourself and our hearts find no peace till they rest in you." St. Augustine, Confessions.


"How sweet all at once it was for me to be rid of those fruitless joys which I had once feared to lose!... You drove them from me, you who are the true, the sovereign joy. You drove them from me and took their place, you who are sweeter than all pleasure." St. Augustine, Confessions.

"If I find in myself a desire which no experience in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world. If none of my earthly pleasures satisfy it, that does not prove that the universe is a fraud. Probably earthly pleasures were never meant to satisfy it, but only to arouse it, to suggest the real thing. If that is so, I must take care, on the one hand, never to despise, or to be unthankful for these earthly blessings, and on the other, never to mistake them for the something else of which they are only a kind of copy, or echo, or mirage. I must keep alive in myself the desire for my true country, which I shall not find till after death; I must never let it get snowed under or turned aside; I must make it the main object of life to press on to that country and to help others to do the same." C. S. Lewis, Mere Christianity.

"All men seek happiness. This is without exception. Whatever different means they employ, they all tend to this end. The cause of some going to war and of others avoiding it, is the same desire in both, attended with different views. The will never takes the least step but to this object. This is the motive of every action of every man, even of those who hang themselves." Blaise Pascal.


"If there lurks in most modern minds the notion that to desire our own good and earnestly to hope for the enjoyment of it is a bad thing, I submit that this notion has crept in from Kant and the Stoics and is no part of the Christian faith. Indeed, if we consider the unblushing promises of reward and the staggering nature of the rewards promised in the Gospels, it would seem that Our Lord finds our desires not too strong, but too weak. We are half-hearted creatures, fooling about with drink and sex and ambition when infinite joy is offered us, like an ignorant child who wants to go on making mud pies in a slum because he cannot imagine what is meant by the offer of a holiday at the sea. We are far too easily pleased." C. S. Lewis, The Weight of Glory.


"The books or the music in which we thought the beauty was located will betray us if we trust to them; it was not in them, it only came through them... These things—the beauty, the memory of our own past—are good images of what we really desire; but if they are mistaken for the thing itself they turn into dumb idols, breaking the hearts of their worshippers. For they are not the thing itself; they are only the scent of a flower we have not found, the echo of a tune we have not heard, news from a country we have never yet visited." C. S. Lewis, The Weight of Glory.

Friday, May 23, 2014

A Pseudo-Community Avoids Messes


This excellent excerpt is from Community and Growth by Jean Vanier:

Scott Peck talks of pseudo-communities. These are where people pretend to live in community. Everybody is polite and obeys the rules and regulations. They speak in platitudes and generalities. But underlying it all is an immense fear of conflict, a fear of letter out the monsters.

If people start to truly listen to each other and to get involved, speaking from their guts, their anger and fears may rise up and they might start hitting each other over the head with frying pans. There are so many pent-up emotions contained in their hearts that if these were to start surfacing, God knows what might happen! It would be chaos.

But from that chaos, healing could come.

They realize what a terrible mess the community is in, what horrible fears inhabit them. Then they feel lost and empty. What to do; what road to take? They discover that they have all been living in a state of falsehood.

And it is then that the miracle of community can happen! Feeling lost, but together, they start to share their pain, their disillusionment and their love, and then discover their brotherhood and sisterhood; they start praying to God for light and for healing, and they discover forgiveness.

They discover community.

Thursday, May 22, 2014

Wish Dream


In Life Together, Dietrich Bonhoeffer explains why a "wish dream" hinders (destroys) Christian community:

"Every human wish dream that is injected into the Christian community is a hindrance to genuine community and must be banished if genuine community is to survive. He who loves his dream of a community more than the Christian community itself becomes a destroyer of the latter, even though his personal intentions may be ever so honest and earnest and sacrificial."

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

"B" is for Beauty

Psalm 27:4

"One thing I ask from the Lord, this only do I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life, to gaze on the beauty of the Lord and to seek him in his temple."

(Last week's theme was "A" is for Accountability. The questions were, "Do you have a Nathan? Are you a Nathan?" Would having a Nathan and being a Nathan enrich your life? Why?)

Theme/thesis: Human beings inextricably link together love, beauty and happiness. Thus, we can never resist desiring and loving what we find most beautiful.

Key Question: What is most beautiful to you? Are you attracted to "the beauty of the Lord"?

Questions for Reflection:
  1. Are you wired for beauty? Why (Gen 1:31; 2:8-9; Eccl 3:11; Rom 1:20)?
  2. Is your life always attracted to beauty? In your experience has this been good or bad?
  3. When you became a Christian, was it "beauty" (and love) that touched and transformed your heart and life?
  4. How might beauty deceive you (Gen 3:6)?
  5. Consider Isaac and his son Jacob. What did they each find beautiful (Gen 27:27-28; 29:17-20)? How did it affect them? What were the consequences?
  6. Consider the beauty of God in:
    • Creation (See #1).
    • Fall (Gen 3:15; Rom 5:8).
    • Redemption (Mk 10:45; Lk 23:34; 2 Cor 5:21; Gal 2:20; See #7).
    • Holy Spirit (Gal 5:22-23).
    • Christ (Mt 11:28-30).
    • The Trinity (Jn 3:16; whole Bible).
    • Consummation (Jn 14:3; Rev 21:1).
  7. How can beauty redeem us (Ps 27:4; Isa 33:17)?

Friday, May 9, 2014

ACCOUNTABILITY (Galatians 6:1) [The ABCs of Practical Christian Living]


"Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted" (Gal 6:1).


(Christianity is ultimately not basic instructions for life but a loving relationship with a Person. There are no basic standard formulas for a healthy, productive and fulfilling life. There are no 7 steps to a happy Christian life that works for everyone. Yet some principles may be helpful, not as a rule or code, but as a guide for practical consideration.)

 

Here are proposed ABCs that may help Christ followers in our journey of faith (please freely think of other words):

·         A (accountability): Gal 6:1.

·         B (beauty): Ps 27:4.

·         C (community): Rom 12:16. Or (constancy): Dt 8:3. Or (confession): James 5:16.

·         D (delight): Ps 37:4.

·         E (experience): Ps 34:8.

·         F (freedom): Gal 5:1. Or (friendship): Jn 15:15.

·         G (gospel of God's grace): Acts 20:24.

 

Questions for Reflection (Think about why accountability is important, what not to do, how to do it.):

 

1.    Why is accountability crucially important for every Christian? Read:

 

a.    1 Pet 5:8.

 

b.    Prov 14:12; 16:25.

 

c.    Eccl 4:9-12.

 

d.    Mt 7:3-5.

 

2.    How do you call someone to be accountable? Read:

 

a.    Gal 6:1. Is there a habitual sin you need to gently restore a brother/sister from? Are you willing to be accountable yourself? Avail yourself/listen to those who seek to restore you?

 

b.    Gal 6:2. What opportunities has God given you to carry another's burden?

 

c.    Gal 6:3. How do you regard yourself?

 

d.    1 Sam 12:1-14. What can you learn from Nathan? Do you have a Nathan? Are you a Nathan to others?

 

e.    Mt 18:15-17. When someone in the church sins, what should you do?

 

 

3.    Regarding accountability what should you not do? Read:

 

a.    Gal 5:25. What is the evidence that you may be conceited?

 

b.    Gal 6:4. What do you think about yourself?

 

4.     How liberating is it to know that you will only answer for your own load (Gal 6:5), and not how you lived compared to others (Gal 6:4)?